I overheard a conversation between two pastoral staff members. One of them was in a public transport when he noticed that a young person’s card had dropped off. The young man was oblivious as he was too engrossed with whatever his ears were plugged into. Though others had seen the card no one went to pick it up for the young man. This pastoral staff moved from where he was, picked up the card and gave it to the young man. The young man took it, with his ears still plugged, took it without a hint of appreciation.

It begs a question: “Are we living or moving into a time where it is every man for himself?” It is almost like we are coming to a time where people feel that ‘Everything is my entitlement or right to have’. It is no longer a privilege that is extended. If this right is denied, it could lead to dire consequences. A young man in Tokyo went on a rampage and injured three family members and killing another two of them, then went out on the street and injured even more people. All because his father closed his Internet connection account. Many young people today, especially in Singapore, do not know that what they have are privileges given to them and not rightful entitlements. Therefore there is neither the need to give thanks nor is there even a slight perception of the need for it.

It is partly our fault when society begins to slide to this extent. Parents allow their children to ‘climb over their heads’ without disciplining them. Some do discipline but do it badly which led to bad experiences and rebellion. It is not an easy thing to do but nevertheless necessary. Do not leave it to the schools or church. It must start with the home.

Scripture is full of teaching on the need for us to give thanks, especially to the Father in Heaven. Woe to us if we forget that. I want to especially warn the successful, brilliant individuals who may think that their success is purely their own effort. Think again and do the right thing. Come before God and give thanks to the rightful owner.

 

 

 

God bless!